Tuesday, July 10, 2012

BFN

I'm oddly ok. Setting my expectations realistically helped a lot. I think it was harder for my husband, but he seems to be holding up ok right now. He woke up at 6:45am wanting to call the doctor. Before we did that I checked my email and the sad news was waiting in my inbox. I can tell I'm going to cry, but I don't feel absolutely horrible.

We've already contacted the doctor about returning; now I just need my PIO card to come in stat.

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  1. EdwardJuly 10, 2012 at 5:19 AM

    Sorry for your news. Keep your chin up and your dream alive...it will happen!

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  2. Brent and CharlieJuly 10, 2012 at 6:56 AM

    Blah. That's really crappy news. Sorry that it didn't work out this round. Hopefully you guys can make it back to India quickly for another round. You guys are going to be great parents.

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    1. A Passage to BabyJuly 10, 2012 at 9:04 AM

      Thanks. I'm hoping the Dr will let us and that my PIO card will come through fast. My biggest worry is that time is not on my side.

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  3. AllieJuly 10, 2012 at 8:43 AM

    I'm sorry that it didn't work this time. It's good you have already started working on a plan for the next round. Hang in there!!!

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    1. A Passage to BabyJuly 10, 2012 at 9:01 AM

      If I wasn't able to jump into a new plan, then it probably would have crushed me. I'm sure I will still get really upset sometime today, but for now I am ok.

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  4. Tandoori VikingJuly 10, 2012 at 1:30 PM

    Very very sorry to read your news :( big hug!

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  5. Mumbai BeginningsJuly 10, 2012 at 7:32 PM

    that just sux...i'm soo sorry...thinking of you...focus on your plan...take care...

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    1. A Passage to BabyJuly 11, 2012 at 5:44 PM

      Thank you! Wishing you the best for your pregnancy. I know it's hard after what you have been through.

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  6. New Year DreamingJuly 11, 2012 at 3:37 AM

    It doesnt seem fair when this happens. I admire that you are persevering on this journey. Take Care

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  7. Robbie + AllenJuly 11, 2012 at 3:05 PM

    So sorry to hear the news...

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    1. A Passage to BabyJuly 11, 2012 at 5:46 PM

      Thank you so much. I can only hope it saved us the heart ache of worse news later.

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  8. SKhanJuly 11, 2012 at 5:05 PM

    So sorry to hear the bfn. Take care of yourself! I hope the Indian govt gets that pio card to you pronto.

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    1. A Passage to BabyJuly 11, 2012 at 5:47 PM

      Thank you. From what I understand, are chances increase each cycle (up to a point). Hoping we can learn something from it and be successful in the future.

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  9. khariniJuly 12, 2012 at 9:58 AM

    So sorry to hear this news but I'm happy to know you are going to try again. As most of us know very well, it sometimes takes more than one IVF to get a baby. Now your doctor knows more about your body and he might be able to get better results this second time around. Hang in there, I know this time is very hard. Big hugs to you. xoxo

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    1. A Passage to BabyJuly 13, 2012 at 8:07 AM

      Today is a bit harder than it was previously for some reason. Thank you for your kind words.

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  10. GeeJuly 16, 2012 at 6:10 AM

    im so sorry to read this, wish i had some words to take away your pain, glad that you are not giving up, keeping my fingers crossed your pio card comes through asap xx

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